How to Quit Being a “Friend” to a Girl – And Make Her Want You As Her Boyfriend Instead

All men at some point have to go through the ‘just friends’ trap. Have you ever felt frustrated about being totally attracted with a woman who only wants you to be her buddy? Think back and remember that awful time when this hot lady told you seriously that you can never be her boyfriend, and she thinks of you only as a friend. What is wrong with that scenario and what is the element that’s missing?

The more important question is: what does she mean when she says “just friends”?

She means she isn’t attracted to you as a lover, and that she knows you will always be there for her, hanging on and hoping that you will be together someday. She probably knows you are in love with her and that gives her the security she needs to stick you inside her “just friends”; frame, and keep you there while she’s having fun with guys who are edgier, sexier and much more desirable to her.

Does she see you as someone she can hook up with someday? Sure, but “someday” is too open-ended to really matter so you have to act now. Turn yourself into someone she wants to date and make her feel that you are not ok with “just friends”. How? Here are some tactics to get off the friend zone for good.

#1: Quit being a friend to her. You know how girls relate to their friends, as allies and confidantes. Basically, friends to her are the people who approve of everything she does unquestioningly.

Being a friend also means you are there for her every single time, whether she just wants to rant about a guy or girl she met at a party somewhere, or she just does not have anyone to talk to. If you have always “been there for her as her friend” it’s time to stop.

#2: Become a challenge to her allure. She knows you find her more attractive than all the other girls in the world, that is why she “loves” you so much!

This is a good thing, right? Wrong. She doesn’t feel challenged to pursue you, or to look at you like she does other men who challenge her allure. The best way to do this is to hint that you find someone attractive, that you found a lot of great qualities (physical) in another girl.

Also, make her feel that she isn’t the top goddess, and she will try her best to prove that she can get you.

#3 – Hypnotize her into falling in love. This is the last thing that you should attempt, but if everything else fails, this is the way to go. The objective is to get her to see you as a love not a friend.

There is a certain technique you can us. We call it fractionation, and with this, you will be able to get girls raring to turn you into their boyfriend. How long before she starts falling in love? A total of 15 minutes, tops.