Should You Propose on Valentine’s Day?

Valentine’s Day is a day that simply says “romance” to so many couples. It’s easy to see why this day might be a popular choice for a marriage proposal. But with Valentine’s Day being one of the most romantic days of the year – is it really the best day to pick for your marriage proposal? Or are expectations running a bit too high? Should you propose on this day or not? Let’s talk about the pro’s and the con’s for proposing on this occasion.

PRO: With romance on everyone’s mind, Valentine’s Day very well could be the perfect day. Many women receive marriage proposals on this day. There is simply romance in the air everywhere you go. Most restaurants offer romantic dinner specials. Flowers are plentiful and easy to find. Romance is all in the air – all around you. We think some of these marriage proposals may simply be inspired by the romantic day itself!

CON: A proposal on Valentine’s Day ruins the surprise experience. Many men say they want to see that look of joy and happiness as they surprise their love with their proposal. On Valentine’s Day, a marriage proposal may even be expected by some couples – as they have reached that point in their relationships. For many men they look forward to surprising their mates nearly as much as they do proposing to her. To propose on on this day means there is a lot less surprise factor. Something to keep in mind if you choose this date.

CON: A Valentine’s Day proposal is usually costly. From restaurants, florists and other entertainment, know they are at a premium for the day. They can charge up to 50% higher costs on this day than they could a week ago or a week later – simply because of that romantic and special day in February. By proposing earlier or later your proposal could be more extravagant or elegant in the way that you choose. Valentine’s day prices are sadly, always higher and not always for a good reason that the consumer can understand except for supply and demand.